Adult attachment research, summarized by Brennan, Clark, and Shaver in their 1998 Experiences in Close Relationships (ECR) scale, measures two dimensions: anxiety about rejection and avoidance of intimacy. Bartholomew and Horowitz later mapped those dimensions onto four attachment styles familiar in pop psychology: secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. The Quiz Hub's attachment style test uses a shortened item set with frequency wording rather than the full published ECR.
Love language frameworks, popularized by Gary Chapman, describe preference domains such as words of affirmation, quality time, and acts of service. Compatibility quizzes on The Quiz Hub will focus on values overlap and conflict style rather than fortune-telling about a partner's feelings. All relationship content states what was abbreviated from validated instruments and what online quizzes cannot claim.
| The Quiz Hub test | Framework | Status |
|---|---|---|
| Does she like me quiz | Observed behavior: attention and effort, flirtation cues, consistency | Live |
| Do I have a crush quiz | Your crush signals: excitement, preoccupation, proximity, jealousy, daydreaming | Live |
| Do I have a crush on my friend quiz | Your friend-crush signals: butterflies, wanting more, dating jealousy, romance, friendship fear, preoccupation | Live |
| Does he like me quiz | Observed behavior: attention and effort, flirtation cues, consistency | Live |
| Do I like him quiz | Your crush signals toward one guy: attraction, emotional pull, desire for connection | Live |
| Do I fancy him quiz | UK fancy signals toward one guy: physical pull, attention, butterflies, dates, jealousy | Live |
| Do I fancy her quiz | UK fancy signals toward one woman: physical pull, attention, butterflies, dates, jealousy | Live |
| Do I love him quiz | Your love signals toward one guy: emotional depth, commitment, vulnerability, future, prioritizing him | Live |
| Do I love my boyfriend quiz | Your boyfriend-framed love signals: depth, commitment, vulnerability, future, prioritizing your boyfriend | Live |
| Do I love her quiz | Your love signals toward one woman: emotional depth, commitment, vulnerability, future, prioritizing her | Live |
| Do I like her quiz | Your crush signals toward one woman: attraction, emotional pull, desire for connection | Live |
| Does she love me quiz | Observed behavior: emotional investment, consistency, future orientation | Live |
| When will I get married quiz | Marriage readiness: status clarity, stability, openness, pressure, goals (no wedding dates) | Live |
| Am I ready for a relationship quiz | Your readiness: emotional availability, communication, healing, time, clarity | Live |
| Am I in love quiz | Your feelings: emotional intensity, attachment pull, relationship readiness | Live |
| Am I in love with him quiz | Your love feelings toward one man: intensity, pull, thinking about him, jealousy, future fantasies | Live |
| Am I losing feelings for my boyfriend quiz | Fading feelings index: affection decline, emotional distance, future doubt, lingering bond plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Are there signs your marriage is over quiz | Marriage strain index: emotional disconnection, conflict contempt, separation thoughts, repair hope plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I in love with her quiz | Your love feelings toward one woman: intensity, pull, thinking about her, jealousy, future fantasies | Live |
| Does he really love me quiz | Deep love signals: emotional safety, sacrifice, future commitment | Live |
| Does my boyfriend love me quiz | Observed behavior: everyday care, reliability, affection, inclusion, future talk, support | Live |
| Does my girlfriend love me quiz | Observed behavior: everyday care, reliability, affection, inclusion, future talk, support | Live |
| Orange peel test | Partner responsiveness: small-favor willingness, warm tone, attentiveness, generosity on minor tasks | Live |
| Tofu test relationship | Partner openness: food respect, curiosity vs mockery, willingness to try, defensiveness when tastes differ | Live |
| Pomegranate theory test | Thoughtful-care signals: inconvenient favors, messy-task patience, comfort anticipation, nurturing consistency | Live |
| Waiter test relationship | Partner courtesy toward service workers: politeness, empathy, tipping, power behavior, consistency | Live |
| Bird test relationship | Gottman bid responsiveness: turning toward, away, against, emotional presence on everyday shares | Live |
| Anxiety or intuition in relationship quiz | Body alarm vs gut clarity: reassurance loops, partner cue reading, anxiety index 0-100 | Live |
| Relationship anxiety quiz | ECR-inspired worry index: reassurance seeking, jealousy scan, catastrophizing, self-worth strain | Live |
| Toxic mother daughter relationship quiz | Bowen-inspired strain index: criticism, guilt, competition, enmeshment with maternal figure | Live |
| Are my parents strict quiz | Family-of-origin index: harsh discipline, rigid rules, high expectations, conditional warmth plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Are my parents overprotective quiz | Family-of-origin index: monitoring, autonomy limits, enmeshment, sheltered exposure plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Are my parents abusive quiz | Family-of-origin YMYL index: physical intimidation, verbal cruelty, control tactics, neglect with caregivers | Live |
| Are your parents toxic quiz | Family-of-origin index: criticism, guilt trips, boundary violations, emotional safety strain with caregivers | Live |
| Emotionally immature parents quiz | Family-of-origin index: self-absorption, validation gaps, parentification, intimacy modeling plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I good enough for my parents quiz | Family-of-origin index: conditional worth, criticism sensitivity, approval dependency, guilt fear plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I good in bed quiz | Bedroom confidence index: partner attentiveness, confidence presence, desire communication, satisfaction connection plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I just a hookup quiz | Hookup-only signal index: contact timing, commitment avoidance, intimacy limits, public distance plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Narcissistic abuse quiz | Trauma-informed coercion index: gaslighting, isolation, blame-shift, control pattern signals | Live |
| Am I dealing with a narcissist quiz | Narcissistic pattern index: gaslighting, entitlement, empathy gaps, control tactic frequency | Live |
| Is my mom a narcissist quiz | Maternal narcissism pattern index: admiration seeking, empathy deficits, envy and rivalry, conditional warmth | Live |
| Is my dad a narcissist quiz | Paternal narcissism pattern index: grandiosity, empathy gaps, criticism, validation image plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my child a narcissist quiz | Parent-report child narcissistic traits index: grandiosity, empathy deficits, rivalry, manipulation plus family intimacy strain stack | Live |
| Is he a narcissist or sociopath quiz | Dark triad pattern index: grandiosity, callousness, manipulation, rule-breaking plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my husband a narcissist quiz | Partner narcissism pattern index: grandiosity, empathy gaps, criticism, validation image plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my friend a narcissist quiz | Friend narcissism pattern index: competitiveness, empathy gaps, boundaries, conditional loyalty plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my friend toxic quiz | Toxic friendship index: emotional drain, disrespect, unreliability, guilt pressure plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I losing my best friend quiz | Friendship drift index: communication fade, priority shift, emotional withdrawal, bond erosion plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my boss toxic quiz | Toxic workplace index: disrespect, micromanagement, favoritism, retaliation fear plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my sister a narcissist quiz | Sibling narcissism pattern index: rivalry, empathy gaps, boundary invasion, conditional warmth plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my mother-in-law toxic quiz | Toxic in-law index: boundary interference, disrespect, manipulation, marriage undermining plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my mother-in-law a narcissist quiz | In-law narcissism pattern index: triangulation, admiration, empathy gaps, conditional approval plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Is my wife a narcissist quiz | Spousal narcissism pattern index: grandiosity, empathy gaps, criticism, validation image plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Was my ex a narcissist quiz | Post-relationship pattern index: idealize-devalue, blame shift, hoovering, empathy inconsistency | Live |
| Relationship OCD quiz | ROCD-inspired pattern index: reassurance loops, partner doubt, comparison, moral scrupulosity | Live |
| Codependency level test | Beattie-inspired pattern index: caretaking overload, self-worth through usefulness, boundary blur, approval seeking | Live |
| Codependency scale | Spann-Fisher-inspired index: external orientation, self-neglect, control and rescue, identity fusion plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Fear of intimacy quiz | FOIS-inspired avoidance index: vulnerability pull-back, closeness desire, trust hesitation, self-disclosure limits | Live |
| Am I clingy quiz | Mikulincer-inspired proximity index: togetherness pressure, contact overload, separation distress, space comfort plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I too obsessed with my boyfriend quiz | Tennov-inspired obsession index: partner preoccupation, identity fusion, surveillance checking, life narrowing plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I trustworthy quiz | Trustworthiness index: honest communication, reliability, loyalty, repair accountability plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I emotionally unavailable quiz | Attachment-distance index: vulnerability avoidance, consistency gaps, intimacy limits, exit fantasies | Live |
| Am I emotionally detached quiz | Detachment index: emotional flatness, empathic disconnect, observational distance, bond disengagement | Live |
| Am I emotionally cheating quiz | Glass-inspired affair-risk index: secrecy, outside intimacy, comparison, boundary crossing | Live |
| Am I adopted quiz | Adoption identity impact index: origin story gaps, belonging strain, rejection sensitivity, loyalty conflict plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I afraid of love quiz | Love-avoidance index: closeness fear, hurt anticipation, independence armor, vulnerability blocks | Live |
| Am I attracted to men quiz | Same-gender attraction clarity index: physical pull, romantic imagery, emotional bonding, clarity curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I cis quiz | Cisgender comfort index: assigned gender alignment, body presentation comfort, pronoun fit, cis identity stability plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I bigender quiz | Bigender identity clarity index: dual gender resonance, presentation fluidity, label language fit, identity exploration plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I genderfluid quiz | Genderfluid identity clarity index: gender shift over time, binary category mismatch, expression variability, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I nonbinary quiz | Nonbinary identity clarity index: binary gender mismatch, neutral gender resonance, expression beyond binary, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I biromantic quiz | Biromantic clarity index: multi-gender romantic pull, imagery breadth, bonding range, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I greyromantic quiz | Greyromantic clarity index: infrequent romantic pull, situational fluidity, limited imagery, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I lithromantic quiz | Lithromantic clarity index: reciprocation fade, unwanted mutual romance, fantasy-real split, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I graysexual quiz | Graysexual clarity index: infrequent desire, contextual arousal, ace spectrum fit, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I attracted to older guys quiz | Older-partner attraction index: age-gap pull, maturity appeal, stability seeking, mentor-role comfort plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Do I have trust issues quiz | Trust difficulty index: hypervigilance, reassurance seeking, secrecy assumptions, repair doubt | Live |
| Do I have commitment issues quiz | Commitment avoidance index: label avoidance, future planning avoidance, exit strategy, commitment desire plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I boy crazy quiz | Romantic fixation index: crush preoccupation, dating hunger, social romance focus, balanced identity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I boyfriend material quiz | Boyfriend readiness index: emotional presence, reliability habits, respectful communication, partnership effort plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I dateable quiz | Dateability signal index: approachability warmth, interest signaling, personal presentation, dating follow-through plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I flirting without realizing it quiz | Unconscious flirting index: physical proximity, verbal warmth, exclusive attention, denial and mixed intent plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I a good kisser quiz | Kissing confidence index: cue reading, sensory presence, warmth expression, initiative confidence plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I a hoe quiz | Casual dating openness index: non-exclusive comfort, physical intimacy pace, label independence, casual connection preference plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I fruity quiz | Fruity queer-coded energy index: expressive flair, queer affection comfort, camp culture resonance, identity curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I husband material quiz | Husband readiness index: emotional presence, reliability, partnership skills, protective commitment plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I ready for marriage quiz | Marriage readiness index: partner fit, personal readiness, practical alignment, commitment confidence plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I ready for a baby quiz | Parenthood readiness index: partner alignment, emotional readiness, practical foundation, parenting motivation plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I wife material quiz | Wife readiness index: emotional support, reliability, partnership commitment, shared life partnership plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I being cheated on quiz | Infidelity suspicion index: secrecy shifts, emotional withdrawal, story inconsistency, trust erosion plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Should I stay after he cheated quiz | Stay-or-leave clarity index: betrayal impact, trust erosion, partner accountability, repair readiness plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I being gaslighted quiz | Conflict exposure index: reality distortion, blame reversal, memory doubt, isolation tactic pattern signals | Live |
| Am I being ghosted quiz | Contact fade index: communication drop-off, mixed signals, avoidance behavior, one-sided effort pattern signals | Live |
| Am I being love-bombed quiz | Early coercion index: intensity pace, isolation pressure, future faking, boundary erosion pattern signals | Live |
| Am I being groomed quiz | Grooming risk index: special attention, boundary testing, secrecy isolation, dependency manipulation plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I better off single quiz | Single-vs-relationship fit index: solo peace, autonomy priority, partnership strain, coupling desire plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I being sexually harassed quiz | Harassment exposure index: unwanted touch, sexual comments, pressure after refusal, boundary disregard plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I a pervert quiz | Sexual boundary comfort index: consent awareness, shame resilience, communication comfort, boundary clarity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Trauma bond quiz | Trauma bond index: cycle intensity, withdrawal attachment, hope pendulum, loyalty isolation plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I desperate for love quiz | Attachment urgency index: pace rushing, standards bending, loneliness intolerance, validation chasing | Live |
| Am I heartbroken quiz | Heartbreak distress index: grief waves, ex longing, identity loss, physical strain plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I healed from my breakup quiz | Breakup recovery index: emotional processing, ex detachment, identity rebuild, connection readiness plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I in a situationship quiz | Label-limbo index: title ambiguity, exclusivity mismatch, effort imbalance, future talk avoidance | Live |
| Am I in the friend zone quiz | One-sided interest index: romantic mismatch, friend-only framing, intimacy limbo, waiting hope | Live |
| Am I an energy vampire quiz | Hochschild-inspired emotional drain index: emotional demand, reciprocity deficit, drama attention, boundary respect plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I jealous of my friend quiz | Friendship jealousy index: comparison envy, replacement fear, possessive attachment, competitive resentment plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Are we friends quiz | Friendship clarity index: mutual reciprocity, emotional mutuality, social recognition, mixed-signal patterns plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I a bad husband quiz | Partner neglect index: emotional neglect, practical neglect, affection neglect, partnership effort plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I a good friend quiz | Friendship quality index: reliability, emotional presence, reciprocal effort, trust integrity plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Best friend or boyfriend quiz | Romantic pull index: romantic pull signals, platonic comfort framing, boundary blur, future vision tension plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Friends with benefits quiz | FWB clarity index: rules clarity, emotional crossover, exclusivity negotiation, expectation alignment plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Rebound relationship quiz | Rebound pattern index: post-breakup timing, ex comparison, distraction use, genuine investment plus fear-of-intimacy stack | Live |
| Am I self-sabotaging my relationship quiz | Peel-inspired sabotage index: withdrawal, jealousy tests, conflict escalation, reassurance chasing | Live |
| Am I a people pleaser quiz | Braiker-inspired accommodation index: approval seeking, conflict avoidance, self-neglect, guilt about boundaries | Live |
| Am I a pushover quiz | Alberti-inspired boundary weakness index: yielding under pressure, weak boundaries, self-defense avoidance, assertive standing | Live |
| Am I asking for too much quiz | Alberti-inspired needs-clarity index: reasonable needs doubt, indirect asking, reciprocity tally, guilt about voicing wants | Live |
| Am I the problem quiz | Gottman-inspired responsibility index: accountability gaps, defensiveness, repair attempts, empathy blind spots during conflict | Live |
| Boo basket test | Halloween gift-basket trend: seasonal thoughtfulness, gift love language fit, ritual reciprocity, personalization, care response | Live |
| Would you still love me worm quiz | Viral meme reassurance: warm engagement, reassurance without dismissiveness, playful reciprocation, emotional safety | Live |
| Does he love me quiz | Observed behavior: emotional investment, consistency, future orientation | Live |
| Attachment style test | ECR-inspired anxiety and avoidance quadrants | Live |
| Diane Poole Heller attachment quiz | Poole Heller-inspired secure, avoidant, anxious, disorganized style profiles with match % | Live |
| My type of man quiz | Partner preference archetypes: Protector, Charmer, Steady Rock, Creative Spirit, Ambitious Leader | Live |
| Psychology types of love test | Lee love styles: Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pragma, Mania, Agape | Live |
| 13 seduction archetypes quiz | Greene-inspired flirtation archetypes: Siren, Rake, Ideal Lover, Dandy, Natural, Coquette | Live |
| Love language test | Chapman-inspired care preference domains | Live |
| Compatibility test | Values alignment, communication, conflict repair, lifestyle fit | Live |
| Love calculator paper | Two-name letter cross-out novelty percentage with disclosed math steps | Live |
| How to find love percentage on paper | Step-by-step classroom guide with interactive letter-crossing walkthrough | Live |
| Love love match quiz | Your match energy: emotional sync, playful spark, communication ease, values vibe, attraction, long-term pull | Live |
| Relationship test | Partnership health: communication, trust, intimacy, repair, goals, respect | Live |
| Soulmate test | Bond resonance: deep understanding, ease, values, growth, intuition, lasting pull | Live |
| Who will I marry quiz | Partner archetypes: steady companion, adventurous spark, intellectual, creative, community, gentle healer | Live |
| Soulmate initial quiz | Novelty initials: six vibe archetypes, weighted A-M / N-Z letter pools, three suggested initials | Live |
| Loyalty test | Your loyalty habits: honesty, reliability, boundaries, conflict loyalty, commitments | Live |
| Boyfriend test | Your boyfriend energy: communication, effort, romance, reliability, respect, fun together | Live |
| Am I a good boyfriend quiz | Your supportive habits: communication, support, reliability, respect, romance, accountability | Live |
| Am I a good girlfriend quiz | Your supportive habits: communication, support, reliability, respect, romance, accountability | Live |
| Is he cheating on me quiz | Partner behavior reflection: phone secrecy, schedules, distance, defensiveness, intimacy, gut trust | Live |
| Abandonment issues quiz | ECR anxiety plus fear and trust distress bands | Mental health hub |
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