Adult attachment research, summarized by Brennan, Clark, and Shaver in their 1998 Experiences in Close Relationships (ECR) scale, measures two dimensions: anxiety about rejection and avoidance of intimacy. Bartholomew and Horowitz later mapped those dimensions onto four attachment styles familiar in pop psychology: secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. The Quiz Hub's attachment style test uses a shortened item set with frequency wording rather than the full published ECR.

Love language frameworks, popularized by Gary Chapman, describe preference domains such as words of affirmation, quality time, and acts of service. Compatibility quizzes on The Quiz Hub will focus on values overlap and conflict style rather than fortune-telling about a partner's feelings. All relationship content states what was abbreviated from validated instruments and what online quizzes cannot claim.

The Quiz Hub testFrameworkStatus
Does she like me quizObserved behavior: attention and effort, flirtation cues, consistencyLive
Do I have a crush quizYour crush signals: excitement, preoccupation, proximity, jealousy, daydreamingLive
Do I have a crush on my friend quizYour friend-crush signals: butterflies, wanting more, dating jealousy, romance, friendship fear, preoccupationLive
Does he like me quizObserved behavior: attention and effort, flirtation cues, consistencyLive
Do I like him quizYour crush signals toward one guy: attraction, emotional pull, desire for connectionLive
Do I fancy him quizUK fancy signals toward one guy: physical pull, attention, butterflies, dates, jealousyLive
Do I fancy her quizUK fancy signals toward one woman: physical pull, attention, butterflies, dates, jealousyLive
Do I love him quizYour love signals toward one guy: emotional depth, commitment, vulnerability, future, prioritizing himLive
Do I love my boyfriend quizYour boyfriend-framed love signals: depth, commitment, vulnerability, future, prioritizing your boyfriendLive
Do I love her quizYour love signals toward one woman: emotional depth, commitment, vulnerability, future, prioritizing herLive
Do I like her quizYour crush signals toward one woman: attraction, emotional pull, desire for connectionLive
Does she love me quizObserved behavior: emotional investment, consistency, future orientationLive
When will I get married quizMarriage readiness: status clarity, stability, openness, pressure, goals (no wedding dates)Live
Am I ready for a relationship quizYour readiness: emotional availability, communication, healing, time, clarityLive
Am I in love quizYour feelings: emotional intensity, attachment pull, relationship readinessLive
Am I in love with him quizYour love feelings toward one man: intensity, pull, thinking about him, jealousy, future fantasiesLive
Am I losing feelings for my boyfriend quizFading feelings index: affection decline, emotional distance, future doubt, lingering bond plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Are there signs your marriage is over quizMarriage strain index: emotional disconnection, conflict contempt, separation thoughts, repair hope plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I in love with her quizYour love feelings toward one woman: intensity, pull, thinking about her, jealousy, future fantasiesLive
Does he really love me quizDeep love signals: emotional safety, sacrifice, future commitmentLive
Does my boyfriend love me quizObserved behavior: everyday care, reliability, affection, inclusion, future talk, supportLive
Does my girlfriend love me quizObserved behavior: everyday care, reliability, affection, inclusion, future talk, supportLive
Orange peel testPartner responsiveness: small-favor willingness, warm tone, attentiveness, generosity on minor tasksLive
Tofu test relationshipPartner openness: food respect, curiosity vs mockery, willingness to try, defensiveness when tastes differLive
Pomegranate theory testThoughtful-care signals: inconvenient favors, messy-task patience, comfort anticipation, nurturing consistencyLive
Waiter test relationshipPartner courtesy toward service workers: politeness, empathy, tipping, power behavior, consistencyLive
Bird test relationshipGottman bid responsiveness: turning toward, away, against, emotional presence on everyday sharesLive
Anxiety or intuition in relationship quizBody alarm vs gut clarity: reassurance loops, partner cue reading, anxiety index 0-100Live
Relationship anxiety quizECR-inspired worry index: reassurance seeking, jealousy scan, catastrophizing, self-worth strainLive
Toxic mother daughter relationship quizBowen-inspired strain index: criticism, guilt, competition, enmeshment with maternal figureLive
Are my parents strict quizFamily-of-origin index: harsh discipline, rigid rules, high expectations, conditional warmth plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Are my parents overprotective quizFamily-of-origin index: monitoring, autonomy limits, enmeshment, sheltered exposure plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Are my parents abusive quizFamily-of-origin YMYL index: physical intimidation, verbal cruelty, control tactics, neglect with caregiversLive
Are your parents toxic quizFamily-of-origin index: criticism, guilt trips, boundary violations, emotional safety strain with caregiversLive
Emotionally immature parents quizFamily-of-origin index: self-absorption, validation gaps, parentification, intimacy modeling plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I good enough for my parents quizFamily-of-origin index: conditional worth, criticism sensitivity, approval dependency, guilt fear plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I good in bed quizBedroom confidence index: partner attentiveness, confidence presence, desire communication, satisfaction connection plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I just a hookup quizHookup-only signal index: contact timing, commitment avoidance, intimacy limits, public distance plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Narcissistic abuse quizTrauma-informed coercion index: gaslighting, isolation, blame-shift, control pattern signalsLive
Am I dealing with a narcissist quizNarcissistic pattern index: gaslighting, entitlement, empathy gaps, control tactic frequencyLive
Is my mom a narcissist quizMaternal narcissism pattern index: admiration seeking, empathy deficits, envy and rivalry, conditional warmthLive
Is my dad a narcissist quizPaternal narcissism pattern index: grandiosity, empathy gaps, criticism, validation image plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my child a narcissist quizParent-report child narcissistic traits index: grandiosity, empathy deficits, rivalry, manipulation plus family intimacy strain stackLive
Is he a narcissist or sociopath quizDark triad pattern index: grandiosity, callousness, manipulation, rule-breaking plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my husband a narcissist quizPartner narcissism pattern index: grandiosity, empathy gaps, criticism, validation image plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my friend a narcissist quizFriend narcissism pattern index: competitiveness, empathy gaps, boundaries, conditional loyalty plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my friend toxic quizToxic friendship index: emotional drain, disrespect, unreliability, guilt pressure plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I losing my best friend quizFriendship drift index: communication fade, priority shift, emotional withdrawal, bond erosion plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my boss toxic quizToxic workplace index: disrespect, micromanagement, favoritism, retaliation fear plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my sister a narcissist quizSibling narcissism pattern index: rivalry, empathy gaps, boundary invasion, conditional warmth plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my mother-in-law toxic quizToxic in-law index: boundary interference, disrespect, manipulation, marriage undermining plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my mother-in-law a narcissist quizIn-law narcissism pattern index: triangulation, admiration, empathy gaps, conditional approval plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Is my wife a narcissist quizSpousal narcissism pattern index: grandiosity, empathy gaps, criticism, validation image plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Was my ex a narcissist quizPost-relationship pattern index: idealize-devalue, blame shift, hoovering, empathy inconsistencyLive
Relationship OCD quizROCD-inspired pattern index: reassurance loops, partner doubt, comparison, moral scrupulosityLive
Codependency level testBeattie-inspired pattern index: caretaking overload, self-worth through usefulness, boundary blur, approval seekingLive
Codependency scaleSpann-Fisher-inspired index: external orientation, self-neglect, control and rescue, identity fusion plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Fear of intimacy quizFOIS-inspired avoidance index: vulnerability pull-back, closeness desire, trust hesitation, self-disclosure limitsLive
Am I clingy quizMikulincer-inspired proximity index: togetherness pressure, contact overload, separation distress, space comfort plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I too obsessed with my boyfriend quizTennov-inspired obsession index: partner preoccupation, identity fusion, surveillance checking, life narrowing plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I trustworthy quizTrustworthiness index: honest communication, reliability, loyalty, repair accountability plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I emotionally unavailable quizAttachment-distance index: vulnerability avoidance, consistency gaps, intimacy limits, exit fantasiesLive
Am I emotionally detached quizDetachment index: emotional flatness, empathic disconnect, observational distance, bond disengagementLive
Am I emotionally cheating quizGlass-inspired affair-risk index: secrecy, outside intimacy, comparison, boundary crossingLive
Am I adopted quizAdoption identity impact index: origin story gaps, belonging strain, rejection sensitivity, loyalty conflict plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I afraid of love quizLove-avoidance index: closeness fear, hurt anticipation, independence armor, vulnerability blocksLive
Am I attracted to men quizSame-gender attraction clarity index: physical pull, romantic imagery, emotional bonding, clarity curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I cis quizCisgender comfort index: assigned gender alignment, body presentation comfort, pronoun fit, cis identity stability plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I bigender quizBigender identity clarity index: dual gender resonance, presentation fluidity, label language fit, identity exploration plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I genderfluid quizGenderfluid identity clarity index: gender shift over time, binary category mismatch, expression variability, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I nonbinary quizNonbinary identity clarity index: binary gender mismatch, neutral gender resonance, expression beyond binary, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I biromantic quizBiromantic clarity index: multi-gender romantic pull, imagery breadth, bonding range, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I greyromantic quizGreyromantic clarity index: infrequent romantic pull, situational fluidity, limited imagery, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I lithromantic quizLithromantic clarity index: reciprocation fade, unwanted mutual romance, fantasy-real split, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I graysexual quizGraysexual clarity index: infrequent desire, contextual arousal, ace spectrum fit, label curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I attracted to older guys quizOlder-partner attraction index: age-gap pull, maturity appeal, stability seeking, mentor-role comfort plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Do I have trust issues quizTrust difficulty index: hypervigilance, reassurance seeking, secrecy assumptions, repair doubtLive
Do I have commitment issues quizCommitment avoidance index: label avoidance, future planning avoidance, exit strategy, commitment desire plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I boy crazy quizRomantic fixation index: crush preoccupation, dating hunger, social romance focus, balanced identity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I boyfriend material quizBoyfriend readiness index: emotional presence, reliability habits, respectful communication, partnership effort plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I dateable quizDateability signal index: approachability warmth, interest signaling, personal presentation, dating follow-through plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I flirting without realizing it quizUnconscious flirting index: physical proximity, verbal warmth, exclusive attention, denial and mixed intent plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I a good kisser quizKissing confidence index: cue reading, sensory presence, warmth expression, initiative confidence plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I a hoe quizCasual dating openness index: non-exclusive comfort, physical intimacy pace, label independence, casual connection preference plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I fruity quizFruity queer-coded energy index: expressive flair, queer affection comfort, camp culture resonance, identity curiosity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I husband material quizHusband readiness index: emotional presence, reliability, partnership skills, protective commitment plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I ready for marriage quizMarriage readiness index: partner fit, personal readiness, practical alignment, commitment confidence plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I ready for a baby quizParenthood readiness index: partner alignment, emotional readiness, practical foundation, parenting motivation plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I wife material quizWife readiness index: emotional support, reliability, partnership commitment, shared life partnership plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I being cheated on quizInfidelity suspicion index: secrecy shifts, emotional withdrawal, story inconsistency, trust erosion plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Should I stay after he cheated quizStay-or-leave clarity index: betrayal impact, trust erosion, partner accountability, repair readiness plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I being gaslighted quizConflict exposure index: reality distortion, blame reversal, memory doubt, isolation tactic pattern signalsLive
Am I being ghosted quizContact fade index: communication drop-off, mixed signals, avoidance behavior, one-sided effort pattern signalsLive
Am I being love-bombed quizEarly coercion index: intensity pace, isolation pressure, future faking, boundary erosion pattern signalsLive
Am I being groomed quizGrooming risk index: special attention, boundary testing, secrecy isolation, dependency manipulation plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I better off single quizSingle-vs-relationship fit index: solo peace, autonomy priority, partnership strain, coupling desire plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I being sexually harassed quizHarassment exposure index: unwanted touch, sexual comments, pressure after refusal, boundary disregard plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I a pervert quizSexual boundary comfort index: consent awareness, shame resilience, communication comfort, boundary clarity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Trauma bond quizTrauma bond index: cycle intensity, withdrawal attachment, hope pendulum, loyalty isolation plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I desperate for love quizAttachment urgency index: pace rushing, standards bending, loneliness intolerance, validation chasingLive
Am I heartbroken quizHeartbreak distress index: grief waves, ex longing, identity loss, physical strain plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I healed from my breakup quizBreakup recovery index: emotional processing, ex detachment, identity rebuild, connection readiness plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I in a situationship quizLabel-limbo index: title ambiguity, exclusivity mismatch, effort imbalance, future talk avoidanceLive
Am I in the friend zone quizOne-sided interest index: romantic mismatch, friend-only framing, intimacy limbo, waiting hopeLive
Am I an energy vampire quizHochschild-inspired emotional drain index: emotional demand, reciprocity deficit, drama attention, boundary respect plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I jealous of my friend quizFriendship jealousy index: comparison envy, replacement fear, possessive attachment, competitive resentment plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Are we friends quizFriendship clarity index: mutual reciprocity, emotional mutuality, social recognition, mixed-signal patterns plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I a bad husband quizPartner neglect index: emotional neglect, practical neglect, affection neglect, partnership effort plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I a good friend quizFriendship quality index: reliability, emotional presence, reciprocal effort, trust integrity plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Best friend or boyfriend quizRomantic pull index: romantic pull signals, platonic comfort framing, boundary blur, future vision tension plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Friends with benefits quizFWB clarity index: rules clarity, emotional crossover, exclusivity negotiation, expectation alignment plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Rebound relationship quizRebound pattern index: post-breakup timing, ex comparison, distraction use, genuine investment plus fear-of-intimacy stackLive
Am I self-sabotaging my relationship quizPeel-inspired sabotage index: withdrawal, jealousy tests, conflict escalation, reassurance chasingLive
Am I a people pleaser quizBraiker-inspired accommodation index: approval seeking, conflict avoidance, self-neglect, guilt about boundariesLive
Am I a pushover quizAlberti-inspired boundary weakness index: yielding under pressure, weak boundaries, self-defense avoidance, assertive standingLive
Am I asking for too much quizAlberti-inspired needs-clarity index: reasonable needs doubt, indirect asking, reciprocity tally, guilt about voicing wantsLive
Am I the problem quizGottman-inspired responsibility index: accountability gaps, defensiveness, repair attempts, empathy blind spots during conflictLive
Boo basket testHalloween gift-basket trend: seasonal thoughtfulness, gift love language fit, ritual reciprocity, personalization, care responseLive
Would you still love me worm quizViral meme reassurance: warm engagement, reassurance without dismissiveness, playful reciprocation, emotional safetyLive
Does he love me quizObserved behavior: emotional investment, consistency, future orientationLive
Attachment style testECR-inspired anxiety and avoidance quadrantsLive
Diane Poole Heller attachment quizPoole Heller-inspired secure, avoidant, anxious, disorganized style profiles with match %Live
My type of man quizPartner preference archetypes: Protector, Charmer, Steady Rock, Creative Spirit, Ambitious LeaderLive
Psychology types of love testLee love styles: Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pragma, Mania, AgapeLive
13 seduction archetypes quizGreene-inspired flirtation archetypes: Siren, Rake, Ideal Lover, Dandy, Natural, CoquetteLive
Love language testChapman-inspired care preference domainsLive
Compatibility testValues alignment, communication, conflict repair, lifestyle fitLive
Love calculator paperTwo-name letter cross-out novelty percentage with disclosed math stepsLive
How to find love percentage on paperStep-by-step classroom guide with interactive letter-crossing walkthroughLive
Love love match quizYour match energy: emotional sync, playful spark, communication ease, values vibe, attraction, long-term pullLive
Relationship testPartnership health: communication, trust, intimacy, repair, goals, respectLive
Soulmate testBond resonance: deep understanding, ease, values, growth, intuition, lasting pullLive
Who will I marry quizPartner archetypes: steady companion, adventurous spark, intellectual, creative, community, gentle healerLive
Soulmate initial quizNovelty initials: six vibe archetypes, weighted A-M / N-Z letter pools, three suggested initialsLive
Loyalty testYour loyalty habits: honesty, reliability, boundaries, conflict loyalty, commitmentsLive
Boyfriend testYour boyfriend energy: communication, effort, romance, reliability, respect, fun togetherLive
Am I a good boyfriend quizYour supportive habits: communication, support, reliability, respect, romance, accountabilityLive
Am I a good girlfriend quizYour supportive habits: communication, support, reliability, respect, romance, accountabilityLive
Is he cheating on me quizPartner behavior reflection: phone secrecy, schedules, distance, defensiveness, intimacy, gut trustLive
Abandonment issues quizECR anxiety plus fear and trust distress bandsMental health hub

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