Sexuality & LGBTQ+ Tests

19 items · about 5 minutes · desire without attraction, split attraction, labels, partnership, invalidation, aro community

Aro spectrum reflection screener for wanting romantic partnership without romantic attraction. Low Cupioromantic Resonance, Mixed Pattern, or Stronger Cupioromantic Fit bands with split attraction education. Not diagnostic.

19 items · about 5 minutes · media, friends, Pride, humor, dating apps

Playful queer social world comfort quiz across five domains with Outside the Bubble, Partly Connected, or Deep in the Bubble bands. Fun snapshot, not gatekeeping.

24 items · about 6 minutes · physical, romantic, aesthetic, emotional, intellectual, sensual

Split attraction reflection screener with Diffuse Attraction Mix, Multidimensional Pull, or Clear Primary Style bands. Six domain bars plus primary attraction style. Not an orientation label.

22 items · about 5 minutes · affection cues, LGBTQ+ fluency, relationship patterns, stereotypes, privacy

Observed behavior screener across five domains with Lower Signal Pattern, Mixed Ambiguous Cues, or Higher Same-Gender Interest Signals bands. Cannot know orientation. Ask him respectfully when appropriate.

14 items + guide · about 4 minutes · appearance, behavior, respectful alternatives, harm awareness, privacy

Educational guide explaining why you cannot tell orientation from looks, plus perception habits screener with More Respectful Observer, Mixed Perception Patterns, or More Stereotype-Reliant bands. Not orientation detection.

24 items · about 6 minutes · pride comfort, identity resonance, community, awareness, chosen family, advocacy

Broad LGBTQ+ community reflection across six domains with Early Exploration, Mixed LGBTQ+ Connection, or Stronger Community Resonance bands. Inclusive of all letters. Not prescriptive.

21 items · about 5 minutes · stereotypes, cues, confidence, myth awareness, privacy

Perception bias screener debunking gaydar myths across five domains with High Stereotype Reliance, Mixed Perception Habits, or More Cautious Observer bands. Cannot detect orientation from looks. Educational, not a guessing game.

24 items · about 6 minutes · hiding, discovery fear, selective disclosure, shame, relief, safety

Concealment and openness reflection across six domains with Mostly Open, Mixed Disclosure, or Higher Concealment Pattern bands. Never pressures disclosure. Trevor Project and 988 crisis links in limits.

24 items · about 6 minutes · self-acceptance, safety, support, disclosure, coping, clarity

Coming-out readiness reflection across six domains with Not Ready Yet, Mixed Readiness, or Fairly Ready to Share bands. Never commands disclosure. Trevor Project and 988 crisis links in limits.

23 items · about 6 minutes · binary discomfort, fluidity, they/them, pole rejection, expression, community

Non-binary gender reflection screener across six domains with Low Non-Binary Signals, Mixed Exploration, or Stronger Non-Binary Pattern bands. Only you define your gender. Not diagnostic.

24 items · about 6 minutes · dysphoria, disconnect, transition desire, community, authentic imagery

Trans identity reflection screener across six domains with Low Trans Identity Signals, Mixed Gender Questioning, or Stronger Trans Identity Signals bands. Only you define your gender. Not diagnostic.

24 items · about 6 minutes · alignment, dysphoria, exploration, pronouns, expression

Gender identity reflection screener across six domains with Mostly Aligned, Mixed Gender Exploration, or Stronger Alternative Gender Signals bands. Only you define your gender. Not diagnostic.

23 items · about 6 minutes · umbrella fit, label flexibility, political connection, community

Reflective queer identity screener across six domains with Low Queer Resonance, Mixed Queer Exploration, or Stronger Queer Identity Signals bands. Queer is reclaimed for many; respectful limits. Not a you are queer verdict.

22 items · about 5 minutes · six sapphic archetypes

Playful lesbian archetype reflection across Soft Dyke, Sporty Lesbian, Artsy Queer, Political Lesbian, Homebody Romantic, and Androgynous Masc with primary, secondary, and percent bars. Labels optional. Not gatekeeping.

23 items · about 5 minutes · attraction, romance, identity, compulsory heterosexuality, community

Reflective lesbian test for women and questioning folks across five domains with Lower Same-Gender Signals, Mixed Exploration, or Stronger Lesbian Identity Signals bands. Compassionate framing, not a you are lesbian verdict.

23 items · about 5 minutes · attraction, romance, identity, framing discomfort, community

Reflective screener for men and questioning folks across five domains with Lower Same-Gender Signals, Mixed Exploration, or Stronger Gay Identity Signals bands. Compassionate framing, not a you are gay verdict.

26 items · about 6 minutes · emotional, physical, romantic, comfort, fluidity

Broad sexuality reflection screener across five domains with Exploring, Mixed Pattern, or Clearer Lean bands and spectrum index. LGBTQ-affirming limits. Cannot determine orientation or prescribe labels.

24 items · about 6 minutes · men, women, non-binary, romantic vs sexual, label comfort

Multidimensional orientation screener with Broad Exploration, Mixed Attraction Pattern, or Clearer Orientation Lean bands. Five domain bars and reflection index. Not diagnostic.

23 items · about 6 minutes · five reflection domains

Screens multi-gender attraction, shifting ratios, romantic versus sexual splits, bi-erasure discomfort, and label fit with three affirming bands. Bi identity valid at any attraction ratio. Not diagnostic.

23 items · about 6 minutes · six reflection domains

Screens low sexual attraction, romantic split, ace label comfort, sexual pressure, intimacy without sex, and ace community resonance with three affirming bands. Gray-asexual and demisexual education included. Not diagnostic.

23 items · about 6 minutes · five reflection domains

Screens opposite-gender attraction, romantic interest, straight label comfort, limited same-gender curiosity, and heterosexual relationship imagining with three affirming bands. Not a heteronormative pressure tool. Not diagnostic.